According to statistics in USA, married couples are making love 66 times in a year. To put the passion back in married couples and prove that sex can be fun in a marriage, authors Annie and Douglas Brown made love 101 days in a row and published their experience in a book called “Just do It”.
Douglas admitted that it was very exhausting experience but it did make them realize how much they grew apart and this experience brought them closer together.
They advice for a good marriage is to have sex atleast once a week, even if you are tired.
If a relationship have lost the passion you can make up some rules that will keep you entertained and hopefully bring the passion back in your relationship. Some couples are throwing dice and the number that comes up will be the number of times they will have sex in a week. Others are relying on the “suprise” effect which can be anything from waiting for your partner in “sexy display” or bringing whip cream to the bedroom.
June 21st, 2008 at 7:50 pm
It is sad that Americans are this way. Sure, it doesn’t help that we were founded by Puritans and it shows today. I think if people let go of the taboos and tried to make sex fun and exciting again, we could all be better off.
That said, cutting out some calories and looking good would help too. Who wants to make love to a 500 pound individual? Could you for that matter?
June 21st, 2008 at 7:59 pm
When my husband is not active in his alcoholism we have sex at least 3 times a week. When he is drinking it is usually twice.
Sex is very important in the marriage. We have been married for 6 years and together for 8. If it gets boring just spice it up somehow. That is, believe it or not the only thing that has kept this marriage alive.