According to statistics 12 percent of women never has the orgasm, and 75 percent can’t have orgasm during the sex.
Is problem from psychological or physical side?
Physical reasons
Most common cause for not having orgasm is wrong clitoris stimulation. Most women need is direct touch in order to get the orgasm, which happens rarely in the intercourse. The second most common problem is fatigue or sickness.
Our bodies are not machines - you can’t simply have orgasm with one button press.
If you feel depressed, your body needs rest, not sexual satisfaction
Medical reasons
There are some diseases that prevents orgasm. They are come from vascular or psychological side. Sometimes problem can be result from some sort of medication.
If everything with health is fine, and you are in great physical condition, then the problem must be psychological.
Psychological reasons
Friends will tell you to relax and that everything should come in place. But if everything was so simple, then it would be successful till now.
Problem is that that sort of psychological closure aren’t rational - you can’t simply concatenate.
List of most common problems that women talk about:
- Perfection
Sex simply must be “well done”. Conditions must be ideal and women must be in good mood.
- Fear from losing control
This character attribute appears in many aspects of life, not only in sexual
- Lack of confidence and appearance dissatisfaction
Too much worry about big ass or small tits
- Shame or blame feeling
That can be result of negative messages in childhood or sexual trauma
Solution techniques
- if you are not getting real stimulation, then you must show partner how to do it right way
- it is desirable to get known better with yourself, starting with base satisfactions, like touching that leads you near the edge
- when you make love put your hand on partner’s and lead him to your’s body, showing him what suit you most. If that looks to aggressive, then you first satisfy him and wait for your turn
